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What is Swinging?
Swinging is a form of recreational social sex between consenting
adults, most commonly consisting of male/female couples meeting other
male/female couples for sex and/or ongoing intimate friendships.
Swinging (otherwise known as "the lifestyle") can take a variety of
different forms. Swing clubs can be "on-premises" (which means that one
may interact sexually with others at that event) or "off-premises"
(which means that one would generally go back to the home or hotel room
of other couples for sex, after deciding to do so at the event).
Newspapers and magazines which carry personal ads for swingers also
exist, and to a slightly lesser degree these publications may also be
considered an aspect of "the lifestyle." Swingers have traditionally
been largely middle class and tend to blend in quite easily with the
general population in terms of appearance and ideology.
What Might I Like About Swinging?
Swingers are attracted to the swinging community for a variety of
different reasons. Many couples find the thought of having sex with
other people to be very arousing, and may find that swinging becomes a
catalyst for improving their own sex lives and relationship. Some people
may feel stifled by repressive societal attitudes towards sexuality, and
may welcome the opportunity to form friendships and a new social network
with people of like mind. Others may simply feel that sex should be a
natural possibility in any friendship in which there is mutual
attraction, and so appreciate the relative open-mindedness and pleasure-positivity
with which the swinging community views this subject. Although the
swinging community is unfortunately not always the best place right now
for het-identified men to explore their potential bisexuality, it is
currently a relatively good place for het-identified women to initially
explore sex with other women, and this sometimes plays a role in couples
choosing to seek it out.
Swinging communities have in the past been somewhat unaware of or
confused by alternative sexual practices such as BDSM or Tantra. This
appears to be changing, and these days you may find many folks in the
swinging community who are knowledgeable about such things (though forms
of BDSM much more extreme than spanking or very light bondage may make
people uncomfortable, depending on the club). If you're interested in
doing so and spend enough time meeting different people, you may
actually find that today's swinging community is becoming a somewhat
fertile place to meet folks with a variety of sexual interests. It is
certainly true right now that the national swinging conventions tend to
host seminars and workshops on a variety of sexual topics, which seems
at least somewhat indicative of broadening perspectives in the
community.
Sexualities are explored and discovered through swinging. For example, most folks find that having
their partner actively enjoy and appreciate what they are experiencing
during sex to be a tremendous turn-on; this is a realization which may
stand in sharp contrast to the attitude that "performance" is
all-important. Swinging can be an opportunity to learn to relax and
appreciate sexual pleasure, and may help one view sex more as a source
of pleasure and intimacy and less as a social bargaining chip or ego
fuel.
Clubs vary from one place to the next, but in general the
swinging community is quite accepting of a variety of body types, sizes,
ages, and shapes. Additionally, many on-premises events provide an
opportunity to dress sexily or go completely nude, which can be a fun
and sensual experience in and of itself.
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